... on HIMSELF
Best qualities: "I'm pretty easygoing. Nothing really fazes me. I don't
get stressed out or dwell on things. I make positives even out of negatives.
I think I'm always pleasant and fun to be around. I'm always in a happy mood.
I don't fight, I don't argue. I'm very reasonable. I'm a
good friend. I don't believe in talking behind people's backs so I like to
think I'm pretty loyal. I get a bit soft sometimes. I'm sensitive. I'll be
the guy who will always pick you up at the airport. I like to go out of my
way for my friends. I like to think I'm not selfish."Weakness: "I'd like to have
more confidence especially around women. Initially, I think I'm a bit shy.
As far what I have a weakness for, I'm a bit of a sucker for a brunette. I
like more exotic kind of women."
Others may not see: "My sense of humor. I'm constantly joking, even
when I put on a serious face."
I'm known for ... "my fashion sense."
Interests: "Fashion, beach, training, personal care, travel,
music. I like sketching. Any quiet period, I just always take a pad with me
and a pencil."
Turn ons: "Seeing the sunrise in the morning. I like to get the most
out of a day. I hate sleeping in. I get up before the sun gets up. I like to
take time out and just go for a nice walk if I can and watch the sunrise.
It's nice. You feel alive. I love architecture. That's a big turn on, it
gets me going. I like a woman who's confident but not overconfident. As far
as appearances go, I like exotic, dark haired, dark skinned, beautiful eyes,
nice skin. I like feminine women."
Turn offs: "Negative, opinionated people. It's good to have an opinion
but to be so opinionated that you can't see someone else's view, I can't
stand people like that. I hate aggressive, violent people or women who smoke
or who have a foul mouth."
Special Talents: "I compete in the Ironman. I've been involved with
that since I was about 8 years of age. I've won a few Australian
titles."
What I love most about being a lifeguard: "We're all such good guys, we
share so many common interests, the beach, surfing, women, having fun. We're
very high on life when we all work together. It's good, you work with
a lot of mates."
Biggest misconception: "There are some misconceptions about lifeguards
and some are right on the money. We are beach bums, we do look at women all
day, we do have a `cruisy' job, but that's only part of it. People don't see
the other flip side of it. It is hard work and we good things and we do save
lives."
15 minutes of fame: "I did a couple of commercials and some modeling
when I was younger."
Charities: "Every year we go to the Children's Hospital for
Easter. We're always supporting something or someone. We've done Shave For A
Cure, where we'd either shave or dye our hair for cancer. We always get
involved with those things."
Travels: "All of Western Europe, UK, Spain, France, Germany,
Austria, Switzerland. I want to go everywhere. The States is quite high on
my priority."
Fashion sense: "I don't like to stick to one style. I like to be clean
cut, nice shirt, tailored pants. But then at the same time, I like the
grunge."
Staying healthy: "I do a fair bit of soft sand running on the beach. I
box twice a week and lift weights 3-4 times a week and other cross training
like rope climbing, swimming, surfing. I train twice a day and I definitely
watch what I eat."
Spirituality: "I'm not religious. I'm a realist. But I'm not against
religion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and
beliefs."
What touches my soul: "I cry at every movie. I'm so bad. I always get
caught up in the moment. I've seen the Green Mile so many times, but every
time it gets me. Just any love story. Ok, that's enough!"
... on WOMEN
Attention-getters: "Just someone who looks approachable, is smiling,
pleasant and has a nice aura. I love a girl who isn't shy. I'm so shy and I don't
really approach women so I need a woman to approach me but at the same time
I like a woman who is a bit coy and a bit shy and a bit innocent and not too
full of themselves. And because I'm big on fashion, a girl has to know how
to dress."
Ideal woman: "I like a girl with an accent. Someone who is honest,
trustworthy and who has direction. I don't want a gold digger. They're
chasing the wrong guy if they are. She's got to be loyal. For any strong
relationship, you have to be able to be around each other a lot, but your
time apart is important too. So I need a girl who's very independent and has
a good group of friends. And who can understand that a guy needs his time
alone with the boys. Just an understanding girl."
I can't resist a woman who ... "wears a shirt with no bra. That's
really a big turn on. I see topless women on the beach all the time but it's
not the same."
Most important quality in a woman: "She has to be able to communicate
and hold a good conversation really. It's all good to have a trophy wife who
looks beautiful and looks great in clothes and looks great on your arm but
if she can't hold a conversation and you don't click, I don't think there's
any point."
Ideal date: "I just like spontaneous things. Every time I've tried to
plan something, it never really comes out the way it's been in my head. Just
meet somewhere and see where it takes you. Just something very casual like a
dinner and a quiet drink and get to know the person."
I'd call a woman back after a first date ... "if I see a spark and feel
a connection but nothing happens. I hate when a girl wants to kiss and get
all touchy feely on a first date. I don't like that. That, to me, is just
her way of saying, 'this is a one night thing, let's do it' and I don't like
that. I like to get the girl first. The longer I wait with a girl, the
better it's going to be in the end. Someone worth waiting for is very
special. A good night kiss is ok but I don't like the full big pash on the
first date. Oh, look, if it happens it happens, sometimes you get caught up
in the moment. But to really make me call back on the first date, I think
you just know. You get that little tingly feeling inside maybe and you can't
stop thinking about them all day and you're contemplating is it too early to
call, is it too late to call, when do I call?"
I would never date a woman who ... "my mother didn't approve of. I also
wouldn't d ate someone who is too full of themselves. I love a girl who's
beautiful and doesn't know it."
How I show I care: "I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I think it's just
the way you touch them and hold them. Just those little things. Picnics and
buying them little things, it doesn't have to be about money but just
appreciating them."
What makes a woman unforgettable: "The way they draw you in so that
you're interested and you fall in love with the almost yet they won't admit
that they've fallen in love with you. So it keeps you chasing, so to speak.
It's really frustrating and I hate it. I'm not a chaser but it keeps you
thinking about them. It's a bit of a mystery."
I wish women understood ... "a man's needs a bit more. I find women and
men so different. They're opposites in every way."
One thing a woman has never done for me yet: "Make my lunch."
... on RELATIONSHIPS
On relationships: "A relationship is definitely important to me. The
companionship is the main part. You can share special moments and do special
things together, like travel. you can share your life really. I also definitely want kids one day. I hope I get to
enjoy the privilege of having children. I can't wait to be a father,
really."
Top relationship keys: "You got to be honest and you have to have
trust. If there's no trust, there's no relationship."
A woman in a relationship with me can expect ... "to be well looked
after, good times and no stress. I'm a bit of a sucker. Once I fall, I fall
pretty hard. I'll go to the end of the world for the right girl, if i had
to. She can expect just a good, solid relationship, someone she can trust.
When I have a girlfriend, it's for keeps. I don't believe in cheating. I've
never ever played up on a partner. If it ever entered into my mind, that's
the signs telling me that the relationship's not working and its time to end
the relationship and move on. I wouldn't string anyone along or be
unfaithful."
What I expect: "I expect the same in return. If I'm giving, caring,
loving and willing to go out of my way for a girl, I'd love to think I'd get
the same in return. Reciprocated love, is it?
When I'm in love, I ... "can't stop thinking about the person, really.
She's constantly on my mind. When you initially fall in love, you think
about that person all the time, you wonder when you're going to see them
next, what you're going to do next with them."
What makes me feel close to a woman: "When they're willing to open up
to you and tell you anything about them, their fears, their passions, their
values. Not hold back and let you know all about them, all about their lives
and their ambitions."
Greatest relationship lesson: "There's more to women than what you see.
You can never judge a book by the cover. You can't just go at face value,
just because someone is gorgeous, great body and it looks like everything is
in place. Not everything is as it seems. Most people have hidden little
demons, maybe, that you got to be cautious of. Just get to know the person
before you really jump into anything too serious."
What makes a woman marriage material: "You have to have the same vision
and direction, as in where you want to be. Being that I'd want to live by
the beach, own my home, work hard and have a family. If I met a girl and she
didn't want to have children or really want to settle down, or work hard and
buy a home together, that wouldn't really work, I don't think. We would need
to have the same goals."
... on SEX
What makes sex good: "If it's with the right person, it feels right.
You feel at one with each other."
I feel my sexiest ... "in the dark or a dim light, at least."
Most sensual part of a woman's body: "The midriff, above the waist,
just below the bust."
Sexiest thing a woman can wear in private: "I hate g-strings with a
passion. I just think they're too much. Both on the beach and the bedroom,
it's a big turn off. I like the boy shorts on a girl, that's a big turn on.
The very low hipster. Just plain cotton, I'm not really into lacy
lingerie."
Surefire way to seduce me: "I like when a girl whispers in your ear,
very quiet and soft. Just a gentle sort of touch."
... on LIFE
Making my mark: "I don't like to get that far ahead of myself. I'm only
just starting. I'd love to make my mark on the fashion world one day, that
would be great."
Responsibility to society: "Every time I step out of my area or if I
travel overseas on holiday, I'm representing Australia, really. I don't want
to give anyone a bad perception of Australians. I think you have to feel a
responsibility that way, wherever I am, whatever I do. I'm a lifeguard down
here. I have to set a good example whenever I'm at the beach."
Valuable life lesson: "Be spontaneous and do things you want to do.
Don't leave any stone unturned. You really have to be 100% ready before you
settle down. You've got to have lived life and fulfilled everything you want
to do before you commit to something like that. Because if there's something
in the back of your mind that you wished you had done, you don't want to
have any regrets."
I must ... "get married, be a father and not ever be complacent and
live on the edge a bit."
Best advice received: "Trust your heart and don't worry about what
other people think."
Best advice I've given a woman: "I'm not one to give out advice."
... on HIS FAVORITE THINGS
Movie: "A Time To Kill."
TV Show: "Friends, The Contender."
Book: "I read biographies. I'm a big Lance Armstrong fan. I've read all
his books. I like to read inspirational books.
Music: "R & B, Hip Hop."
Food: "I love stone fruit, nectarines, plums, peaches."
... final THOUGHTS
Wheels: "A surfing wagon."
Always in my refrigerator: "Milk, fruit, chocolate."
Hottest possession: "A pair of engraved cufflinks that we're given to
me by my aunt when she got married."
I would change places for 24 hours with ... "Kelly Slater. He's a great
athlete. He's well known but not well known. He's a genius and a magician.
I'd love to have his surfing ability. And I last heard he was dating Gisele,
that would be nice."
I would most like to hang out with ... "Jessica Alba. She's gorgeous.
She looks approachable. She always looks nice and not too outdone. She
doesn't have to wear the sexy, revealing clothes to get any attention, well
not from me, anyway. She always seems quite reserved. She's very classy and
seems very sweet."
Celeb I'd love to take on a date: "Jessica Alba or Mandy Moore. I love
Mandy Moore. She's cute, she seems sweet and innocent. Once again, she
doesn't seem like a Lindsey Lohan `look at me' or Paris Hilton. I can't
stand those girls. Obviously I don't know Jessica or Mandy but the way they
come across, it's all good."
Why I'm such a great catch: "There will never be a dull moment It's
going to be all fun and games but when the time's right, I can be serious.
But more often than not, it's going to be rather pleasant, I'd like to
think. You're going to get a fairly driven, motivated, entertaining, easy to
talk to kind of guy."
Me in a word: "True."
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