ERIN

... the FACTS 

Born: Greensboro, NC 

Resides: Wilmington, NC 

Birth date: 5-24-984

Sign: Gemini 

Height: 5'3"

Weight: 110 lbs.

Hair: Blonde

Eyes: Blue

Status: Never married, no children

Want children: Yes

Engaged before: Yes, but no serious broken engagement. We each had rings but were not planning a wedding for the near future.

Smoker - hopefully soon to be - EX smoker!

Education: Beginning school going for a 4 year degree in the fall. (major undecided as of now).

Occupation: Vet Tech

... on HERSELF

Strengths: "Compassionate towards people and all living things, great listener, intelligent, sense of humor, fun-loving, open minded, wise, devoted, understanding, warm hearted, approachable, wide variety of interests, polite, friendly, generous, loving, trustworthy."

Weaknesses: "Can be quite moody, sensitive - not as thick skinned as I would like to be, easily frustrated/angered, bad temper, reliance on others for my own happiness, hard time expressing my feelings sometimes, have a very hard time trusting, impatience, indecisive, somewhat flighty. I have a bad habit of cursing too much - it's not ladylike at all!! (GOD I have A LOT to work on huh?!!)."

Others may not see: "That I am very wise beyond my years. I know most people who meet me realize this, but not to the extend that I realize it. Also, possibly that I do actually make good decisions now and I know what I am doing most of the time - even when it seems as though I haven't a clue."

I've been known to ... "do almost anything for a laugh - even if it means acting wild, silly and sometimes even gross!! Most people who know me might describe me as "crazy, " although I don't really see it to any extreme." 

Interests: "Photography, rollerblading, dancing, shopping, playing with and/or taking care of animals, hanging out with friends having coffee and talking, swimming, the beach - volleyball, frisbee, the ocean, layin' in the sun, reading, writing, Internet use!!!" 

Turn ons: "A good sense of humor, compassionate, patience, a love for kids and animals, having a sincere desire to please your partner, a Christian, goal-oriented, motivated, playful and fun loving, confident, good manners, intelligent, open minded."

Turn offs: "Dull, rigid, stuffy, not a Christian, indecisive, immature, party animals who either drink too much/often or who do any drugs AT ALL, no challenge, no goals, boring, conceited, unreliable, inconsiderate, insincere, unfaithful, cocky."

Special Talents: "I wouldn't say that I possess any special "talents" per say, I mean I don't whirl batons or tap dance ... LOL. However, I have been told that I have a knack for writing, dancing & photography."

Titles: "Graduated Magna Cum Laude year of 2003 from my high school in Jamestown, NC."

Charities: "I did for some period of time work for the Humane Society, which I loved. Once I have some free time, I plan to get involved with volunteer work at the local shelters (animal and homeless)."

15 minutes of fame: "In the 5th grade, I was in a talent show. Myself and 3 other girls (in which I was the only white girl) were on stage and sang the song "I Wanna Be Down" by Brandy. My uncle has it on tape and it is entertainment for ALL!!"

Travels: "I have been to Las Vegas, Seattle and Hawaii. I plan to do MUCH more than that though. Ireland and Italy are up there on the list."

Spirituality: "I do not consider myself religious in the least. I do, however, consider myself to be very spiritual. I believe in God and most of what I know about the bible, but I know very little as far as that goes. I was not raised as a church go'er, although I have attended church  more now that I make my own choices. It is not a part of my weekly routine but I would like it to be one day. I have a very strong faith in God, from my upbringing I feel like I have proof of the existence of a higher power and that my mom and I were blessed.  It is the one thing that no one can take from me. "

Fashion sense: "Mostly laid back - jeans and tee shirts are my fave - I like to be comfy. However if I was going out on a date and trying to impress someone, I would most likely wear a cute dress with sandals or a skirt.  I would always keep it classy."
 
Staying healthy: "Unfortunately I haven't had too much time for worrying about keeping in shape lately. I do however enjoy going to the gym, being active on the beach, rollerblading and other various activities. I also make an effort to eat somewhat healthfully." 

What touches my soul: "When someone reaches out to a stranger in need. When I am able to help or do something for the greater good it always touches my soul. Even if it is something small, such as helping an old lady fasten her seatbelt on a plane, or pulling over to help an elderly person up who has fallen on the sidewalk. Also when I see an elderly couple still more in love than ever, holding hands and helping one another, it touches me every time." 

... on MEN 

Attention-getters: "Smile at me!! Admire me from across the room, without stalking me! Play hard to get a little bit. Give me a challenge."

Ideal man: "Intelligent, funny, easygoing, ambitious, charismatic. I would, of course, have to be attracted to him as well."

I can't resist a man who ... "makes me laugh till I cry!"

Most important quality in a man: "Sense of humor."

Ideal date: "With someone I did not know, I would rather just meet for coffee or smoothies and maybe take a walk in the park if it was going well."

What makes me want to see a man again after a first date: "Chemistry between the two of us."

I'd never date a man who ... "did drugs, was an atheist, hated his mother, hit a woman, hated cats."

How I show I care: "Small gestures such as hiding little notes, making his lunch for work, little gifts or cards, being thoughtful in general."

What makes a man unforgettable: "When he is very charming, shows a lot of interest, and we hit it off well. Also acts of kindness that show that he is a considerate person."

I wish men understood ... '"that when we tell you our problems, we are NOT usually looking for a solution. We just need to vent. So please don't offer a solution unless we ask for one!!"

One thing a man has never done for me yet, but I would love it: "Surprised me and took me on a vacation. I have done this for an ex, as a birthday surprise, but it has yet to be reciprocated."

... on RELATIONSHIPS

On relationships/marriage: "Both consist of a lot of hard work. It is usually worth it to work things out rather than to give up right away."

Top relationship keys: "An understanding of the other sex - knowing the key differences between men and women. Patience, being compassionate and reliable."

A man in a relationship with me can expect ... "me to be quite the bitch in the morning upon waking up if messed with. I am NOT a morning person!"
  
What I expect: "To be treated respectfully."

When I'm in love, I ... "am on a pink cloud. Can always be found with a smile on my face! Feel like I could walk on water ... it's the greatest feeling in the world."

What makes me feel close to a man: "Intimacy, sharing things with each other that we share with no others."

Greatest relationship lesson: "The grass is NOT greener ..."

What makes a man marriage material: "Honest, faithful, ready to settle down, loves kids and cats!!"

... on SEX  

What makes sex good: "Having rhythm. Loving the person you are with. Feeling safe and secure with that person."

I feel my sexiest when ... "I am showered, shaved and wearing a sexy nitey, ready for bed."

Most sensual part of a man's body: "Stomach."

Sexiest thing a man can wear in private: "Nothing but a towel."

Surefire way to seduce me: "Kiss my neck and nibble on my earlobe."

... on LIFE

Making my mark: "I plan to make an impact on the lives of many homeless animals. Hopefully improve and provide housing for many homeless, unwanted pets."

Responsibility to society: "I don't know ... I guess to just be the best person I know how to be, and treat everyone with equal respect; as I would want to be treated."

Valuable life lesson: "That I am not in control of other people's actions. That sometimes you just have to let go and let God, because you cannot make decisions for other people or help someone who does not want to help themselves."

Three things I must do in this lifetime: "Travel, Have a family, retire!!"

Best advice received: "To believe in yourself, even when you don't want to."

Best advice I've given a man: "When I get angry, just back off!!"

... on HER FAVORITE THINGS

Movie: "Shawshank Redemption."

Book: "Go Ask Alice."

Music: "The Beatles/John Lennon."

Food: "Italian/Japanese."

... final THOUGHTS

Pets: "3 full grown cats and a kitten. Yes, even I call myself the crazy cat lady sometimes!!! And proud! Their names are Nellie, Nikko, Nina and Bella. They are all short haired domestic cats that I have taken in. None from breeders or pet shops, which I do not approve of. There are too many homeless animals in this country for people to be breeding them.""

Tattoos/piercings: "1 tattoo/6 piercings - none facial. The tattoo is on my mid lower back and is a cross. I have both ears pierced once and the cartilage done on one ear. My belly button and both nipples (don't ask) are the other 3. The nipples were done a few years back and I have just been too attached to remove them yet."

Always in my refrigerator: "Water, tuna, pickles."

Hottest possession: "My laptop I guess."

I'd change places for 24 hours with ... "my kitten, Bella because she is so happy. She gets to run around and play at all hours of the day. She can sleep whenever she wants. She gets to receive unconditional love."

I'd most like to hang out with ... "Kate Hudson. She is an actress I have admired for a while. I find her to be very funny and beautiful. She seems to have a great personality and is a good role model. She is also a great actress." 

Celeb I'd love to go on a date with: "Mark Walberg. He was the first to come to mind ... he's hot."

Why I'm such a great catch: "Because of all the good qualities I already told you about. They are actually true."

Me in a word: "Witty."